Mm ,para,book title could be ddbl

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Looking for a book i started but cannot find again.
Think it was a fated matesseries ?
One of the young men has just found a boyfriend ( mate who lives nxt door to him who has also been protecting him and his mother from his abusive father he) talks his friends into going to a rough bar ( para) .
once there they are all nervous and feal out of place,mc is so nervous he gets gobby with bartender who makes him repeat drink order asking nicely ending with sir ( something like that).bartender is owner and alpha and fated mate.

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Lynn hagen little bunny by Lynn hagen ( sin&Steel bk1)