I've been trying to find this book all I remember is the opening scenes theme m/m, bdsm. It starts with a poker game three friends two of whom are a couple and the last getting over the loss of his lover/husband. At the poker game a young (punk)brat has been invited as the game Winds down the kid is losing and has lost all his money and tries to make a grab and dash with the winnings. The friends grab him and take him down into the now single friends ba*****t/dungeon and some dubious consent and video taping goes on for blackmail purposes? I just remembered the opening and not much of the rest. Help is appreciated. Thank you