That book you remember the plot of but not the name...

[TriciaAnn]

I think I found it. Could it be this one?:

Ral's Woman (Zorn Warriors 1) by Laurann Dohner
Ariel never knew aliens existed until she finds herself kidnapped and taken from Earth. When the Anzon declare humans useless, she learns her fate-prize for the winner of a brutal fight between large, muscled alien men.

Ral is a Zorn warrior. He has also been kidnapped by the Anzon, along with his crew. Forced into slavery, he's got one thing on his mind-freeing his people. That is, until he sees the small human woman he's willing to fight to win. He doesn't just want her body, he wants her heart forever.

In the hands of a hot alien, Ariel is about to discover how pleasurable captivity can be.

This is IT! Thank you so much for solving this for me.... hugs. Sorry I posted without the quotes but I was excited.